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Mister Rogers and Mr. Wooden

by Woody

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Matching bookends:

Mister Rogers and Mr. Wooden

The recent release of the movie “A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood,” starring Tom Hanks, made me wish I had met Mister Rogers.

After a moment’s mild envy I realized, in a manner, I did for I was blessed to know Mister Wooden. Indeed, John Wooden and Fred Rogers were in many ways matching human bookends.

Mister Rogers famously used puppets for teaching.

Both famous men humbly considered themselves teachers at heart; were kind to their core; and felt “love” was the most important word in the English language. Daily, Rogers swam 20 minutes and Wooden walked four miles. Both personally answered every fan letter they received. Both made being “old-fashioned” cool.

While I never visited “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood,” I dropped by Mister Wooden’s neighborhood in Encino many times. One visit, when I took my two young children to meet Wooden, reminds me especially of Mister Rogers. After all, one of the highlights featured a stuffed animal.

After leading my then-8-year-old son, 10-year-old daughter and me into the living room, the first thing Wooden did was excuse himself to retrieve something off a shelf in his study. One of his ten NCAA national championship trophies? A Coach of the Year or Hall of Fame plaque? Or perhaps he was getting down one of the many humanitarian awards that had him sharing august company with such notables as Mother Teresa, Jimmy Carter, and Melinda Gates?

“Heavens sakes, no!” to borrow one of Wooden’s favorite phrases of exasperation. Instead, the acclaimed “Wizard of Westwood” returned carrying a small, stuffed gorilla about the size of a teddy bear. It was wearing a red vest with a matching bowtie. And the fancy anthropoid could talk.

“You’re a genius!!!” the talking stuffed ape in the fancy red vest said enthusiastically, his words of praise meriting three exclamation marks at the least.

My son and daughter visiting with Coach John Wooden.

“Excellent thinking!!!” it continued.

“You’re brilliant!!!”

“Grrreat idea!!!”

“That’s fabuuulous!!!”

“That’s awesome!!!”

“Outstanding!!!”

My son and daughter laughed, as did I. Wooden smiled at them before giving me a knowing wink. What appeared to be a child’s toy to others, The Greatest Basketball Coach Who Ever Lived saw as a teaching tool.

“This is The Self-Esteem Ape,” Coach explained softly and warmly – in a Mister Rogers-like voice I now realize – as he cradled the stuffed animal given to him by his daughter Nan. “When our self-esteem is a little low, we all need to be picked up a little.”

John Wooden, like Fred Rogers, was a Self-Esteem Wizard.

A photograph of my kids sitting on Coach’s lap reveals how completely comfortable they felt in his company from the start. Both kids have taken a framed print with them to every college dorm room, apartment and house they have lived in since. Indeed, both cite that as one of the most magical days in their lives.

During our two-hour visit, Coach talked to my kids about basketball for about five minutes and spent the rest of the time sharing stories about his children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren. About Nellie. About his idols Abraham Lincoln (“There is nothing stronger than gentleness”) and Mother Teresa (“If you can’t feed a hundred people, feed just one”). About his famous Pyramid of Success.

And about his father Joshua’s “Two Sets of Threes: Don’t whine. Don’t complain. Don’t make excuses. / Never lie. Never cheat. Never steal.”

Escorting his three visitors outside to the front gate at the conclusion of the rose-petal-pressed-in-a-scrapbook-like afternoon, Coach Wooden added a fourth Never:

“Never forget,” The Wizard of Self-Esteem told my kids, a hand on each of their shoulders, “how special you are.”

Sounds like Mister Rogers, doesn’t it?

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Woody Woodburn writes a weekly column for The Ventura County Star and can be contacted at WoodyWriter@gmail.com. Follow him on Twitter and Instagram at @woodywoodburn. His books are available at www.WoodyWoodburn.com.

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Part 2: Return Letter From Mister Rogers

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Part 2: Return Letter From Mister Rogers

It was a beautiful day in a Ventura neighborhood for a three-and-half-year-old boy when he received an answer to a letter he had mailed a few weeks earlier.

It arrived on letterhead with alternating purple, gold and pink letters reading “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood” at the top and dated January 2001. At the page’s bottom is an image of the familiar red Neighborhood Trolley.

One more thing of interest: One cannot help but read it and in their mind’s ears hear Mister Rogers’ familiar and friendly television voice.

“Dear Franklin,

“It meant a lot to me that you wanted to send me a letter. It was kind of your mother to help by typing the words into the computer. You are fortunate to have a mother who cares so much about you and about your ideas and questions.

“Franklin, I also liked the way you wrote your name on the letter and the way you put all kinds of fancy stickers on the letter and envelope. You certainly have good ideas.

A postcard sent personally from Mister Rogers to Franklin

A picture sent personally from Mister Rogers to Franklin

“It’s wonderful to know you’re interested in how people make different things. You told us you’d like to have a book that explains how people make different things or a video of our factory visits. There are some books in the library about how people make different things. Maybe a librarian could help you and your mother to find those books. There are many ways to learn more about the things that interest you.

“We haven’t made one video with our factory visits, but we’re glad to send our calendars to your family so you can know when we’ll be showing how people make different things.

“It’s good to know you are someone who wonders about things and asks questions. Wondering and asking are important for growing and learning. I’m proud of the many ways you’re growing, and I hope you are, too.

“You are special, and you make each day a special day – just because you’re you.

“Your television friend,

“Mister Rogers” (signed in blue ink)

If this note were not remarkable enough, there was something more. A second letter:

“Dear Mrs. Hansen,

“Thank you for helping your son Franklin send us his delightful letter and also for taking the time to add your own warm comments about our programs. You and your son have truly made this a more beautiful day in our Neighborhood – in many ways!

“Nothing could please us more than to know there’s a second generation in your family growing up with our Neighborhood, and we’re glad you have such good feelings about what your children experience with us. Thank you, too, for your kind words about our articles in Ladybug Magazine.

“While we’re honored to know how much your family appreciates what we offer, at the same time, we want you to know that we are very much aware that children who seem to like our Neighborhood best are the ones who have already experienced the deep investment of love in their own families, and so they are able to understand what we offer. That was certainly confirmed once again in your kind note to us and in the attention you gave Franklin’s questions for us, and I couldn’t help but think how fortunate your children are to be growing up in your caring home.”

The letter continues onto another page and concludes:

“Please give everyone in your family our kindest regards. We will remember with great pleasure that the Hansens are a part of our Neighborhood . . . and that we’re part of yours.

“Sincerely,

“Fred Rogers” (signed in blue ink)

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Woody Woodburn writes a weekly column for The Ventura County Star and can be contacted at WoodyWriter@gmail.com.

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Part 1: A Boy’s Letter to Mister Rogers

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Beautiful Day in a Neighborhood

Writing a letter to a famous television personality and expecting a reply is not dissimilar from putting a message in a bottle and throwing it into the sea.

Yet that is what a young boy in a Ventura neighborhood did, with the help of his mother, eighteen years past. Composed by Franklin, typed by his mom and printed in Arial font, the letter read:

“December 13, 2000

“Dear Mr. Rogers,

“My name is Franklin and I am 3 and a half years old. My mommy is computing this for me. I’d like to have a book about how to do things. You know how everything works, so maybe you know this book? I wish you could put all of your ‘how’ movies together and send it to me.

A postcard sent personally from Mister Rogers to Franklin

A postcard sent from Mister Rogers to Franklin

“I want to know how you make plastic and how plastic gets squished into shape like a cowboy hat. Mommy says plastic starts with oil, but how does black stuff become a shiny hat? Mommy told me how to make people and deer but how do you make glass and windows? I want to know how they make this keyboard. I also want to know how to read letters.

“Can you please help me?

“I love you,

“Franklin Hansen”

Beneath Franklin’s carefully printed signature was a typed postscript:

“A note from Mom: Thank you for so many wonderful years of ‘Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood’ and for your essays in ‘Ladybug’ magazine. I am learning as much about ‘how’ now as when I was a child and I am so grateful that my children can relax with you and learn how to be better people: nicer, kinder, and more open-minded. I am still learning from you and my son’s curiosity is a wonderful excuse to say thank-you. I am sad about your retirement but as long as PBS keeps airing your shows (how do I ensure this?) my kids will continue to grow with your wisdom.

“Sincerely,

“Cindy Hansen”

All these years later, Cindy retells: “We were watching one of the shows and Franklin absolutely adored those factory segments. So after one of the shows we were talking about them and all of the things he wanted to know. He wanted to ask/wish why Mister Rogers didn’t have a show that was just those factory visits.”

The magnificent mother of two sons adds: “I was very glad that my boys enjoyed him as much as I had when I was younger. When we went to the Pittsburgh Children’s Museum (around 2010), we were so excited to see the set with Trolley moving through the Neighborhood. As we drove through town the boys kept saying, ‘He filmed it here Mom!’ Of course, this was his Neighborhood.”

Launched in 1968, the beloved “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood” television show aired original episodes until 2001 – two years before the host’s death at age 74. Marking the iconic educational show’s 50th anniversary, a new film “Won’t You Be My Neighbor?” is the highest grossing documentary of 2018. Moreover, Tom Hanks will star in another movie about the late Fred Rogers, “You Are My Friend,” to be released next year.

Back in 2000, back when Franklin was “3 and a half” and wrote a letter filled with questions, Mister Rogers was a big deal and surely too busy to personally answer it.

And yet in early January of 2001, it was a beautiful day in a Ventura neighborhood because a letter arrived from Mister Roger’s Neighborhood. The envelope was addressed to Cindy Hansen, but inside was a letter written to her son.

Next week, we will see Mister Rogers’ remarkable reply.

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Woody Woodburn writes a weekly column for The Ventura County Star and can be contacted at WoodyWriter@gmail.com.

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