The mile marker of a birthday is a good time for reflection and so today, shortly before beginning a new personal lap around the sun, here are a few things I have come to know…
Always double-knot your shoelaces.
Never pass up a barefoot walk on the beach.
Love is more powerful than penicillin.
Never ever pass up a chance to gaze at a sunrise or sunset.
Always take the opportunity to gaze at the stars on a clear night – or at Starry Night and other masterpiece paintings.
Speaking of art and masterpieces, these two bookend John Wooden-isms will carry you far: “Make friendship a fine art” and “Make each day your masterpiece.”
Who you travel with is far more important than where you travel.
All the same, Robert Frost was right: Take the road less traveled by.
John Muir was also right when he said, “Of all the paths you take in life, make sure a few of them are dirt.”
Don’t save the good china plates and crystal goblets and heirloom silverware for special occasions only.
Do spend as much time as you can with people who lift you up and as little as possible with those who pull you down.
Saying “You’re welcome” is as important as saying “Thank you.”
Writing a thank-you note or handwritten letter is always a few minutes well spent.
A good many movies and books are far too long, but most hugs are too short.
Never pass up a chance to hold hands with a boyfriend or girlfriend, a husband or wife or partner, a child or the elderly.
Don’t let your fears outweigh your dreams.
One minute of encouragement following a defeat or failure or during hard times is worth far more than an hour of accolades and praise after a triumph or big success.
Artificial Intelligence doesn’t worry me half as much as Real Stupidity.
The value of a compliment is often underrated by the giver, but rarely by the person receiving it.
A positive attitude will positively carry you a long, long way.
This African proverb is right: “There are two lasting gifts you can give your child: one is roots, the other is wings.”
Do unto others as you would have them do unto your children or grandchildren is a better Golden Rule.
We can always make room for one more at the dinner table or in our heart.
Maya Angelou was right: “When you leave home, you take home with you.”
The best travels, and life journeys too, often wind about a little crookedly.
Even a “bad” road trip will give you some good memories to last a lifetime.
It is not truly a favor if you make the recipient feel like you are doing a favor.
It takes worn-out running shoes to finish a marathon; worn-out brushes before you can paint a masterpiece; burnt pots and pans to become a seasoned chef, and blistered fingertips to finally master the guitar.
Some of my very favorite adults seem like they are just tall children.
No matter your age, never pass up a chance to ride a Ferris wheel or carousel.
If you can be world class at only one thing, make it kindness.
My dear friend Wayne Bryan is right: “If you don’t make an effort to help others less fortunate than you, then you’re just wasting your time on Earth.”
Don’t waste your time on Earth.
We should all make a wish and blow out a candle 365 times each year because every day is a once-in-a-lifetime masterpiece to be celebrated.
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Essay copyrights Woody Woodburn
Woody writes a weekly column for The Ventura County Star and can be contacted at WoodyWriter@gmail.com. Follow him on Twitter and Instagram at @woodywoodburn. His SIGNED books are available at www.WoodyWoodburn.com.
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