Short Walk to Long Remember

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Going for a walk, Walt Whitman poetically penned, left him “enrich’d of soul” and I am of a similar mind.

Indeed, few things leave me feeling more “enrich’d” than a walk on the beach, barefooted naturally, ideally at the shoreline where retreating waves leave the sand wet and cool and firm, but also little squishy between one’s toes.

A walk in the woods is likewise soulful, Walden Pond being one of my most memorable strolls for it is as beautiful as it is famous, and yet such natural splendor is not required to for a walk to be unforgettable.

Nor is a magical walk measured always by miles or hours. The other day, as example, a short walk on a city sidewalk instantly claimed a spot in my heart alongside a second-date beach stroll with a lovely brunette who would become my wife; alongside a hike up-Up-UP the switchbacking trail of Yosemite Falls with my son when he was in grade school; alongside a saunter down the aisle with my daughter, her hand wrapped around my arm and my heart wrapped around her little finger, on her wedding day.

I wish you could see a photograph of my latest walk to remember. It was snapped surreptitiously from behind as my 5-year-old granddaughter and I walked side by side, her little hand reaching up and engulfed in mine reaching down.

Maya, her sandy-blonde hair in a ponytail, seems a human rainbow in a blue-white-and-peach T-shirt, shamrock green leggings and pink sneakers, with a purple backpack decorated with a yellow heart and smiley face.

Her monochromatic escort, meanwhile, wears grey hiking shorts, a black pullover with the sleeves pushed up to the elbows for the morning is sunny and already warm, and black flip-flops.

Unseeable from behind, Maya and I are also wearing smiles.

We are on the way to school, her next-to-last day of preschool before starting kindergarten. To the left of us are some handsome trees, parked cars to the right, and a scattering of fallen leaves on the narrow sidewalk underfoot.

Our strides match perfectly—our outside feet stepping forward and inside feet pushing back in unison in the photograph—as Maya takes slightly longer steps than usual, almost skipping with helium in her socks, while I have shortened mine.

Walking from our car parked down the block to the school’s front door, then two hallways to Classroom 1, takes only a few minutes yet is time enough to talk a little and laugh some, too.

“What are you going to do in school today?” I ask.

“Play,” Maya answers with unusual succinctness.           

“Play is good,” I say and try again: “What do you think you are going to learn today?”

“I don’t know or I’d already know it,” Maya replies, looking up with a wry and playful smile.

She proceeds to tell me that NeNe, this being what she calls my wife, wants to come to school—not to drop her off, but to be a student so she can learn new things.

“What classroom would she be in?” I ask and the reply comes sprinkled with a giggle: “I think there isn’t a classroom number high enough because NeNe is too old for my school.”

“How about me?” I follow up. “Could I be a student here?”

“Oh, yes, Bruno,” Maya sings, using her pet name for me. “You can be in my classroom because you act like a kid.”

“An early-morning walk,” said Henry David Thoreau, echoing Mr. Whitman, “is a blessing for the entire day.”

My day had been blessed indeed, my soul “enrich’d.”

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Essay copyrights Woody Woodburn

Woody’s new novel “The Butterfly Tree” is now available in paperback and eBook at Amazon (click here), other online bookstores, and is orderable at all bookshops.

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Woody writes a weekly column for The Ventura County Star and can be contacted at WoodyWriter@gmail.com. Follow him on Twitter and Instagram at @woodywoodburn.

Back To School Thoughts, Laughs

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Always Make Time for Playing

 School is back in session and I, for one, will miss having the kids around every day.

No, not my two kids because their last first days of school have passed. Rather, the kids I see daily during the summer out and about at the beach, around the neighborhood, playing at parks.

Here is an example of how random kids brighten my day. It occurred at a local soccer field while I was on my afternoon run.

Five boys, all around age 10, were playing with a Nerf football. Two of the kids were the headliners – make that, HEADliners.

Kid 1: “You keep hitting me in the head with the football.”

Kid 2: “Yeah.”1maya

Boink!

Kid 1: “Hey, are you doing it on purpose?”

Kid 2: “Yeah.”

Kid 1: “Why?”

Kid 2: “Because it’s fun.”

Kid 1: “Okay.”

Me: Laughter.

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Because most things can be improved in some way, it seems to me the word “perfect” is usually not a perfect adjective.

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Monday’s solar eclipse was, I dare say, perfect.

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Add solar eclipse. Maya Angelou’s poetic words seemed perfect for the occasion: “This is a wonderful day – I have never seen this one before.”

Today, too, even without an eclipse.

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The U.S. Navy didn’t ask me, but in the 21st century its ships should not be colliding into tankers and container ships, as has tragically happened twice in the past two months.

Heck, in the 19th century these collisions should not have happened.

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Nobody asked me, but I wish there was as much widespread interest in seeing our natural parks and protecting our oceans, rivers and environment as there was in buying protective goggles and viewing the solar eclipse.

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In response to my column on mentoring, Art Zweig emailed asking me to share information about the local chapter of SCORE (www.ventura.score.org) – Senior Core of Retired Executives:

“It was started in 1964 by then-president Kennedy. We are volunteers who are mentors for people who want to start up a business or need help in a business they already have.

“We meet with people, one on one, free of charge and cover an array of topics – financing, accounting, legal and any other subject they might need. We also have many workshops on a variety of topics every month.

“We also offer programs for Veterans of the Armed Forces called Boots to Business. I would appreciate it if you could mention this in your column so the public is aware that we are available to help.”

Consider it mentioned, Art.

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A number of readers emailed in about my column remembering former Star sports editor John Cressy. Here are excerpts from two:

“It is so hard to lose a longtime friend. I think society undervalues the depth of that loss,” wrote Colleen Cason, my wise colleague. “I wish I had known John better. I saw him a couple months ago at UCSB. He was so upbeat. I’m glad to have that memory of him to hold onto. My condolences to you and all the others at the loss of the leader of the band.”

And from Larry Alamillo: “I did not know the man, but I easily recognized John Cressy’s name. He was one of my favorites.”

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My wife doesn’t have a lot of products cluttering our shower, but these four bottles caught my eye: a shampoo with “coconut milk,” body wash with “vanilla chai,” conditioner with “avocado” and Fur So Green shampoo with “green tea.”

Reaction 1: I’m assuming the last bottle is for our dog Murray.

Reaction 2: I hope there’s no Wheaties with “Dove Soap” in the pantry.

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Coming full circle back to Back To School, a nugget of wisdom Coach John Wooden once wrote to my kids seems worth sharing now: “Please remember that, as the new school year is here, to work hard on your studies – but keep some time for play!”

Probably perfect advice for adults and their working lives, too – keep some time for play!

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Woody Woodburn writes a weekly column for The Ventura County Star and can be contacted at WoodyWriter@gmail.com.

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